# Find a time together without sharing private calendars

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Let two consenting people use their agents to compare only approved availability windows, agree on a time and confirm one appointment.

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Category: Family & relationships

Type: One-off

## What you get

A mutually approved slot and verified calendar event, with each person’s private details withheld

## Bring this

Two consenting participants, each calendar owner’s sharing rules, event purpose, candidate windows, duration, timezone and who may finalize it.

## Your agent needs

- Supported agent-to-agent or mediated free/busy exchange
- Separate identities and explicit consent from both calendar owners
- Event creation permission and independent readback for each required calendar

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## Copy-and-paste prompt

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```text
Help [person A] and [person B] arrange [appointment purpose] for [duration] during [candidate windows and timezones]. Each person must authorize their own agent or calendar connection. Start by checking what the selected tools actually support; if agents cannot communicate securely, use a small human-reviewed exchange of free/busy options.

Each side may disclose only [approved free/busy windows and optional location constraints]. Do not reveal event titles, descriptions, attendees, private notes or why a time is unavailable. Make two or three candidate slots that meet both sets of rules, with travel buffers if supplied. Show each participant the same proposed time and timezone, the purpose, location and any invitee list. A free slot is not consent to an appointment.

Confirm both participants’ acceptance and who is authorized to create the event. Write only the approved event in the approved calendar or calendars; avoid duplicate invitations and read back the resulting event IDs and attendee state. If either consent, connection or readback fails, return a proposed slot and the unresolved step. Keep an audit of approvals without copying private calendar contents into the other person’s record.
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## Illustrative example

A possible result

Illustrative only: two people’s agents exchange three free/busy windows and show one mutually available dentist appointment without exposing either calendar’s other events.

This is not an observed result or a verified recommendation.

## From the community

Suggested by the site founder as a possible personal-agent workflow. This is an original, untested prompt; no agent execution or external action is claimed.

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